Consistency is key in discipline from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
The key to effective discipline is consistency. Consistency means following through on the rules and consequences you have set for your children. It means being firm and unwavering in your expectations. Children thrive on consistency because it provides them with a sense of security and stability. When they know what to expect, they are more likely to behave appropriately. Consistency also helps children understand the consequences of their actions. When you consistently enforce rules and consequences, children learn that there are repercussions for their behavior. This helps them develop self-control and learn to make better choices. Inconsistency, on the other hand, can confuse children and make them unsure of what is expected of them. Consistency is not always easy, especially when it comes to discipline. It requires patience, persistence, and a willingness to follow through even when it is difficult. It can be...
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