Keep consequences simple and fair from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
When it comes to disciplining children, it's important to keep consequences simple and fair. This means that consequences should be straightforward and easy for children to understand. They should also be consistent and proportional to the behavior that occurred. If consequences are too complicated or confusing, children may become frustrated or resentful. On the other hand, if consequences are unfair or arbitrary, children may feel like they are being treated unjustly. This can lead to feelings of anger or...
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