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Women often see interruptions as rude, while men may view them as a sign of engagement from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

In many conversations, interruptions are a common occurrence. However, the way interruptions are perceived can vary greatly between men and women. For women, interruptions are often seen as a sign of disrespect or rudeness. When a woman is interrupted, she may feel like her thoughts are being disregarded or devalued. This can lead to feelings of frustration or annoyance. On the other hand, men may interpret interruptions differently. For many men, interrupting someone during a conversation can be viewed as a sign of engagement or enthusiasm. In their eyes, interrupting shows that they are actively participating in the discussion and are interested in what the other person has to say. For men, interruptions are not necessarily meant to be disrespectful, but rather a way to show involvement in the conve...
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