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Women may seek validation through active listening, while men may focus more on asserting their point of view from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

In conversations, women may often seek validation through active listening, while men may tend to focus more on asserting their own point of view. This difference in communication styles can lead to misunderstandings and frustrations between men and women. Women may use conversation as a way to connect with others and build relationships. They are more likely to engage in active listening, nodding, and making supportive comments to show that they are paying attention and validating the speaker's feelings. For women, listening attentively is a way to show empathy and establish rapport with others. On the other hand, men may approach conversations as a way to exchange information and assert their opinions. They may be more focused on making their point and proving their expertise on a subj...
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    You Just Don't Understand

    Deborah Tannen

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