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Men and women may have different ways of offering support from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

Men and women often approach offering support in different ways, stemming from their distinct communication styles. For women, offering support may involve listening attentively, expressing empathy, and providing emotional validation. They may offer comforting words and reassurance, creating a safe space for the other person to share their feelings. In contrast, men may offer support by providing solutions, offering practical help, and trying to fix the problem at hand. They may see offering advice as a way to show support and care for the other person. These differing approaches can sometimes lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations. For example, a woman seeking support may feel frustrated when a man immediately jumps to providing solutions...
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    You Just Don't Understand

    Deborah Tannen

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