Being too accommodating can lead to being taken for granted from "summary" of Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov
When you're too accommodating, you're essentially bending over backwards to please someone else. You're putting their needs and wants before your own, making sacrifices and compromises without hesitation. While it's important to be considerate and caring in a relationship, there's a fine line between being kind and being a doormat. When you go above and beyond to make someone happy, they may start to take advantage of your kindness. They might come to expect that you will always be there to cater to their every whim, without appreciating the effort you put in. This can lead them to become complacent and stop putting in the same level of effort in return. Essentially, they begin to take you for granted. Being too accommodating can also send the message that you don't value yourself as much as you value the other person. It can make you appear desperate for approval and validation, which can be a turn-off...
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