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Victims of abuse may struggle to trust others in the future from "summary" of Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

When someone has been abused, especially over a period of time, it can deeply affect their ability to trust others. This is a completely understandable response to a situation where they were hurt by someone they should have been able to trust. Abuse involves a betrayal of trust, as the abuser takes advantage of the victim's vulnerability and uses it against them. This can make it difficult for the victim to trust others in the future, as they may fear that they will be hurt or betrayed again. Trust is essential in any relationship, whether it is with a friend, family member, or romantic partner. When trust is broken through abuse, it can be challenging to rebuild that trust with someone new. The victim may be constantly on guard, looking for signs that the other person will also hurt them. This lack of trust can impact all areas of the victim's life, making it hard for them to form close connections with others. They may struggle to open up or be vulnerable, fearing that they will be taken advantage of again. This can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, as they may keep others at a distance to protect themselves. It is important for those who have been abused to seek support and therapy to work through their trauma and learn to trust again. Healing from abuse takes time, but with the right resources and support, it is possible to rebuild trust and form healthy relationships in the future.
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    Why Does He Do That?

    Lundy Bancroft

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