Domestic abuse is never the victim's fault from "summary" of Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
Victims often blame themselves for the abuse they endure. They may believe that if only they had done things differently, the abuse would not have happened. This line of thinking is not only false but also dangerous. It allows abusers to avoid taking responsibility for their actions and to continue to manipulate and control their victims. Abusers are skilled at making their partners feel responsible for their abusive behavior. They may use tactics such as gaslighting, where they distort reality and make the victim doubt their own experiences. They may also employ guilt-tripping or blame-shifting to make the victim feel like they are the ones at fault. These tactics serve to keep the victim trapped in the abusive cycle and prevent them from seeking hel...
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