Abusers often blame their behavior on their victims from "summary" of Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
Abusers commonly shift the responsibility for their behavior onto the person they are abusing. This tactic serves a dual purpose for the abuser: it allows them to avoid taking accountability for their actions while simultaneously undermining the victim's sense of self-worth. By blaming the victim, the abuser can maintain a facade of innocence and righteousness, deflecting attention away from their abusive behavior. This pattern of blaming the victim is a manipulative strategy employed by abusers to exert power and control over their victims. It is a way for them to gaslight the victim, making them doubt their own perceptions and experiences. The abuser may insist that the victim provoked them or somehow deserved the abuse, further perpetuating feelings of guilt and shame in the victim. By shifti...
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