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Practice active listening from "summary" of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again by Tina Tessina

Active listening is a crucial skill in the dating world. It involves more than just hearing the words that someone is saying - it requires fully engaging with the speaker and showing them that you are truly interested in what they have to say. This means making eye contact, nodding in agreement, and asking relevant questions to show that you are actively listening. When you practice active listening, you are showing your date that you value their thoughts and feelings. This can help build trust and create a deeper connection between the two of you. By actively listening, you are demonstrating that you are present in the moment and genuinely care about what your date has to say. One key aspect of active listening is focusing on the speaker and avoiding distractions. Put away your phone, turn off the TV, and give your date your full attention. This not only shows respect for the speaker but also allows you to fully absorb and understand what they are saying. Another important part of active listening is reflecting back what you have heard. This can involve paraphrasing what your date has said or summarizing their main points. This shows that you are not only listening but also processing and internalizing their words.
  1. Practicing active listening can greatly improve your dating experiences. It can help you better understand your date's perspective, build trust and rapport, and create a more meaningful connection. So next time you are on a date, remember to put your active listening skills to work and see the positive impact it can have on your relationships.
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The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again

Tina Tessina

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