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Affairs can shake up stagnant relationships from "summary" of The State of Affairs by Esther Perel

Affairs have a way of stirring things up in relationships that have gone stale. When one partner strays, it can serve as a wake-up call for both parties, jolting them out of their routine and forcing them to confront the issues that have been festering beneath the surface. The discovery of an affair can be a shock to the system, but it can also be a catalyst for change. In the aftermath of an affair, couples are often forced to reevaluate their priorities, communication styles, and emotional needs. The betrayal can serve as a crucible, testing the strength of the relationship and forcing both partners to reckon with their own shortcomings. It can be a painful process, but it can also lead to a deeper level of understanding and connection between the couple. Affairs can also shake up the power dynamics within a relationship. When one partner strays, the balance of power is disrupted, forcing both parties to reassess their roles and responsibilities. This can be a destabilizing experience, but it can also be an opportunity for growth and change. The betrayed partner may find themselves in a position of newfound strength and agency, while the straying partner may be forced to confront their own vulnerabilities and insecurities.
  1. Affairs have the potential to break down the walls that have been built up between partners, allowing for a more honest and authentic connection to emerge. While the discovery of an affair can be devastating, it can also be a chance for both parties to rebuild and renew their relationship. In this way, affairs have the power to shake up stagnant relationships and breathe new life into them.
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The State of Affairs

Esther Perel

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