Our selfesteem is tied to how we are perceived by society from "summary" of The Social Animal by Elliot Aronson
In Western cultures, individuals often gauge their worth based on how they are viewed by society. This phenomenon can be traced back to our evolutionary past, where our survival depended on being accepted and valued by the group. As a result, our self-esteem is closely tied to the approval and validation we receive from others. This external validation serves as a barometer for our self-worth, shaping our beliefs and behaviors. The concept of social comparison plays a significant role in shaping our self-esteem. We constantly compare ourselves to others, seeking affirmation and validation from our peers. This comparison can be both explicit and implicit, as we measure our success, attractiveness, and intelligence against societal standards. When we perceive ourselves as falling short of these standards, our self-esteem takes a hit, leading...
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