Acknowledging and validating children's feelings fosters emotional intelligence from "summary" of The Science of Parenting by Margot Sunderland
When children express their feelings, it is crucial for parents to acknowledge and validate those feelings. This act of recognition is not simply about agreeing with what the child is feeling, but rather about showing that you understand and respect their emotions. By doing so, parents help their children develop emotional intelligence - the ability to recognize, understand, and manage their own emotions, as well as understand and respond to the emotions of others. Acknowledging and validating children's feelings teaches them that their emotions are valid and important. It helps them feel seen and heard, which in turn boosts their self-esteem and confidence. When par...
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