Selfcenteredness is the root cause of marital problems from "summary" of The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller,Kathy Keller
In marriage, self-centeredness is like a weed that slowly chokes the life out of a beautiful garden. It is the root cause of many problems that couples face, leading to arguments, misunderstandings, and ultimately, a breakdown in communication. When one or both partners are focused solely on their own needs and desires, it creates a toxic environment where love and understanding cannot thrive. Self-centeredness breeds resentment and selfishness, as each partner becomes more concerned with getting their own way than with working together as a team. This selfish mindset can lead to a lack of empathy and compassion towards one another, making it difficult to truly connect on a deep emotional level. Instead of putting the needs of their spouse first, self-centered individuals prioritize their own happiness above all else, leading to feelings of neglect and dissatisfaction in the relationship. Marriage is a partnership that requires both individuals to be selfless and willing to compromise for the gr...
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