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Cultivate love maps to deepen your connection in marriage from "summary" of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD,Nan Silver
Developing a deep understanding of your partner's inner world is crucial for building a strong and lasting relationship. This involves cultivating what I call "love maps"—detailed mental images of your partner's likes, dislikes, fears, dreams, and values. By actively seeking to know and understand your partner on a deeper level, you show that you care about what makes them unique and special. This not only strengthens the emotional connection between you but also helps you navigate challenges and conflicts more effectively. To cultivate love maps, you must be curious and attentive to your partner's thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Ask open-ended questions, listen attentively, and show genuine interest in what they have to say. This will not only de...
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