Explosive behavior is due to lagging skills from "summary" of The Explosive Child by Ross W. Greene, PhD
Lagging skills are quite common in children who exhibit explosive behavior. These skills can be in the areas of flexibility, frustration tolerance, problem-solving, and self-regulation. When a child lacks these skills, they are more likely to have difficulty managing their emotions and behaviors in challenging situations. Rather than choosing to explode, these children are often reacting to their inability to cope with the demands of the environment. It is important to understand that explosive behavior is not a deliberate choice made by the child. Instead, it is a manifestation of their lagging skills. By focusing on identifying and addressing these skills, it is possible to help the child learn more adaptive ways to handle challenging situations. This approach shifts the focus from punishment and consequences to collaboration and problem-solvin...
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