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Be patient and willing to compromise from "summary" of The Dance of Connection by Harriet Lerner

When we find ourselves in conflict or disagreement with others, our first instinct may be to dig in our heels and defend our position at all costs. We may become impatient, wanting to quickly resolve the issue and move on. However, true resolution often requires patience and a willingness to compromise. Being patient means taking the time to truly listen to the other person's perspective, even if we don't agree with it. It means allowing them the space to express their thoughts and feelings without interrupting or becoming defensive. Patience also involves recognizing that resolving conflicts takes time and effort, and that instant solutions are often unrealistic. Willingness to compromise means being open to finding a middle ground that both parties can agree on. It means being flexible and willing to give up some of our own desires in order to reach a solution that bene...
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    The Dance of Connection

    Harriet Lerner

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