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Stay curious a little longer from "summary" of The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
The concept "Stay curious a little longer" is all about resisting the urge to jump to conclusions or offer solutions too quickly. It's about embracing the discomfort of not knowing and allowing space for deeper exploration and understanding. When you stay curious a little longer, you open yourself up to new possibilities and insights that can lead to more meaningful conversations and outcomes. By pausing and staying curious, you give yourself the opportunity to ask more questions and challenge assumptions, which can uncover hidden truths and perspectives. This not only enriches your understanding of the situation but also builds trust and rapport with the other person. It shows that you are genuinely interested in their thoughts and feelings, and that you value their input. Staying curious a little longer also helps to avoid falling into the trap of giving advice or making judgments prematurely. Instead of assuming you have all the answers, you approach the conversation with a humble and open mindset, ready to learn and explore together. This not only fosters a sense of collaboration and co-creation but also empowers the other person to come up with their own solutions and insights. In a coaching context, staying curious a little longer is a powerful tool for unlocking the potential of your coachee. By resisting the temptation to provide quick fixes or solutions, you encourage them to think more deeply, reflect on their own experiences, and tap into their own wisdom. This not only builds their confidence and self-awareness but also enables them to take ownership of their development and growth.- Staying curious a little longer is about embracing the unknown and trusting in the process of inquiry and discovery. It's about cultivating a mindset of curiosity, humility, and openness that can lead to richer conversations, deeper insights, and more meaningful connections. So, next time you find yourself in a coaching conversation, remember to stay curious a little longer and see where it takes you.
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