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Don't rush to give advice from "summary" of The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
When someone comes to you seeking guidance or a solution to a problem, the natural inclination is to jump right in and offer advice. It's a knee-jerk reaction, a well-meaning attempt to be helpful. However, this impulse often does more harm than good. By rushing to give advice, you risk missing the bigger picture, failing to truly understand the root of the issue, and ultimately providing a solution that doesn't fully address the problem at hand. Instead of immediately jumping to solutions, it's important to take a step back and resist the urge to fix things right away. By refraining from offering advice too quickly, you give yourself the opportunity to truly listen and understand what the other person is saying. This not only helps you grasp the full scope of the situation but also allows the other person to feel heard and valued. When you take the time to listen and ask pr...
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