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Letting go of control can lead to greater joy from "summary" of The Book of Joy by Dalai Lama,Desmond Tutu

The concept of relinquishing control as a pathway to increased joy is a theme that runs through the wisdom shared by the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu. In our quest for happiness, we often find ourselves trying to micromanage every aspect of our lives, fearing that if we loosen our grip, chaos will ensue. However, as the two spiritual leaders assert, this need for control can actually be counterproductive, hindering our ability to experience true joy. When we cling tightly to the idea that we must dictate every outcome, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment and frustration. Life is inherently unpredictable, and trying to force it into a predetermined mold only serves to create unnecessary stress and anxiety. By learning to let go of this need for control, we open ourselves up to the possibility of serenity a...
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    The Book of Joy

    Dalai Lama

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