Roughhousing can help children learn selfcontrol from "summary" of The Art of Roughhousing by Anthony T. DeBenedet, M.D,Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D.
Roughhousing is not just about letting kids blow off steam. It's about learning self-control in the midst of chaos. When children engage in rough play, they have to constantly adjust their behavior to the ever-changing situation. They need to learn when to push harder and when to back off, when to be gentle and when to be firm. In these moments of intensity, they are developing their ability to regulate their emotions and actions. Through roughhousing, children learn to read social cues and understand boundaries. They learn to recognize when their playmate is getting overwhelmed and needs a break. They learn to respect each other's limits and communicate effectively. This is crucial for building healthy relationships both in childhood and later in life. When children roughhouse, they are constantly negotiating and compromising, honing their ability to navigate social interactions with finesse. In the heat of rough play, children's brains are firing on all cylinders. They are making split-second decisions, coordinating their movements, and problem-solving on the fly. This high level o...
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