Law 20: Do not commit to anyone from "summary" of The 48 Laws of Power in Practice by Jon Waterlow,Andrea Domenichini
Law 20 warns against committing to anyone. This law is about preserving your independence and freedom of action. When you commit to someone, you give them power over you. They can influence your decisions, control your time, and manipulate you to their advantage. To avoid this trap, maintain your autonomy and keep your options open. Committing to someone can make you vulnerable. It can limit your ability to act in your own best interests. By staying uncommitted, you remain flexible and adaptable. This gives you the freedom to pursue opportunities as they arise, without being tied down by previous promises. It also allows you to protect yourself from potential betrayal or exploitation. When you commit to someone, you risk becoming entangled in their agendas and conflicts. This can compromise your own objectives and lead to conflict of interest. By avoiding commitments, you can maintain your...
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