Being consistent in discipline can prevent favoritism from "summary" of Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we are consistent in our discipline with our children, we are sending them a clear message about what is acceptable behavior and what is not. This consistency helps to establish boundaries and expectations that apply to all siblings equally. By treating each child the same way in similar situations, we avoid the appearance of favoritism. Children are keen observers, and they are quick to notice any disparities in how they are disciplined compared to their siblings. When one child is consistently allowed to get away with certain behaviors while another is reprimanded for the same actions, feelings of unfairness and resentment can arise. These negative emotions can breed animosity between siblings and create a sense of competition for parental approval. By maintaining consistent...
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