Cultivate patience and curiosity in challenging conversations from "summary" of Say What You Mean by Oren Jay Sofer
When we find ourselves in challenging conversations, it's common to feel a sense of urgency or discomfort. We might feel the need to rush to a resolution or to defend ourselves against perceived threats. However, these tendencies often backfire, leading to more conflict and misunderstanding. Cultivating patience allows us to stay present and engaged in the conversation without being overwhelmed by reactive emotions. By taking a moment to pause and breathe, we create space for curiosity to arise. Instead of reacting impulsively, we can approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Patience and curiosity work hand in hand to deepen our understanding of ourselves and others. When we're patient, we give ourselves the opportunity to listen deeply and to reflect on our own reactions. This self-awareness is essential for effective communication, as it allows us to express ourselves clearly and compassionately. Curiosity, on the other hand, helps us to see beyond our assumptions and biases. By approaching the conversation with a sense of wonder and inte...
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