Strive for fulfillment over societal expectations of success from "summary" of Refuse to Choose! by Barbara Sher
When you refuse to choose, you are making a bold decision to embrace your multi-faceted self, even if it goes against societal norms. Society often places a high value on traditional definitions of success, such as climbing the corporate ladder or earning a certain income. However, these external markers of success may not necessarily bring you fulfillment or happiness in the long run. Fulfillment comes from pursuing activities that resonate with your true desires and passions, regardless of whether they fit into society's narrow view of success. It involves aligning your actions with your values and aspirations, rather than conforming to external expectations. By prioritizing fulfillment over societal norms, you are taking control of your own ...
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