Model patience and understanding in your interactions from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When interacting with challenging kids, it's important to remember that they are struggling with skills that are essential for navigating the demands of life. These skills include flexibility, frustration tolerance, problem-solving, and empathy. As a caregiver, you have the opportunity to model these skills in your interactions with them. One way to do this is by demonstrating patience when they are struggling to regulate their emotions or behavior. By remaining calm and composed, you show them how to manage difficult situations without becoming overwhelmed or reactive. In addition to patience, it's also important to demonstrate understanding towards the child's perspective. This means taking the time to listen to their thoughts and feelings, even if you don't agree with them. By showing empathy and trying to see things from their point of view, you validate their experience and help them feel heard an...
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