Use consequences that teach rather than punish from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When your child misbehaves, it's natural to want to punish them. After all, punishment seems like the most straightforward way to get them to stop doing whatever it is that they shouldn't be doing. However, punishment doesn't always work the way we hope it will. In fact, it can sometimes make things worse. That's why it's important to consider using consequences that teach, rather than simply punish. When you use consequences that teach, you're helping your child understand why their behavior was wrong and how they can make better choices in the future. This approach focuses on providing your child with the opportunity to learn and grow, rather than just making them suffer for their mistakes. By using consequences that teach, you're sending the message that you care about your child's development and want to help them become better individuals. One way to implement consequences that teach is by using natural consequences. Natural cons...
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