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Peer orientation can undermine parental influence from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
When children become more attached to their peers than to their parents, a shift in influence occurs. Suddenly, the opinions and behaviors of friends become more important than those of the parents. This phenomenon, known as peer orientation, can have a detrimental effect on the parent-child relationship. Parents often find themselves in a position where they are competing with their child's peers for influence. Children who are more peer-oriented may resist their parents' guidance and authority, as they are more concerned with fitting in with their friends. This can le...
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