Selfconfidence is often an illusion from "summary" of Perfectly Confident by Don A. Moore
Self-confidence can sometimes feel like a shield against the uncertainties of life, a suit of armor protecting us from self-doubt and fear. We walk a little taller, speak a little louder, and take risks we might not otherwise take when we believe in ourselves. Yet, as comforting as it may be to feel self-assured, the reality is that true self-confidence is often an illusion. We tend to overestimate our own abilities and underestimate the obstacles in our way. We focus on our strengths and successes, conveniently forgetting our failures and shortcomings. This selective memory creates a distorted self-image that can lead us astray. When we are overly confident in our own judgment, we may fail to seek out advice or consider alternative perspectives. This can blind us to the risks and pitfalls that lie ahead, leading us to make poor decisions based on flawed assumptions. Moreover, the very act of projecting confidence can sometimes deceive others into believing in us more than they should. We may talk a big...
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