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Master the art of silence to encourage the other party to speak from "summary" of Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss,Tahl Raz
When you're negotiating, the power of silence is a potent tool. By staying quiet after you've asked a question, you give the other person the space and opportunity to speak. This technique works because most people feel uncomfortable with silence and will rush to fill the void. They may reveal valuable information or make concessions in an effort to break the silence and move the conversation forward. This is especially effective when dealing with difficult or confrontational individuals who may be more inclined to talk when they feel like they're in control. Silence can also be a strategic way to gather more information and gain insights into the other party's mindset. By remaining silent, you can observe their body language, tone of voice, and facial expressions, which can provide clues about their thoughts and emotions. This nonverbal communication can be just as revealing as their words, helping you to better understand their motivations and priorities. Additionally, silence can create a sense of anticipation and tension, making the other person more likely to divulge sensitive information or make concessions in an effort to break the silence. However, it's important to use silence strategically and not as a passive-aggressive tactic. Silence should be employed with the intention of fostering communication and understanding, rather than as a means of asserting dominance or control. By mastering the art of silence, you can create a more open and honest dialogue with the other party, leading to better outcomes for both sides. So the next time you find yourself in a negotiation, don't be afraid to embrace silence as a powerful tool in your arsenal.
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