Selfesteem comes from self-acceptance from "summary" of Man's Search for Himself by Rollo May
Self-esteem is a crucial aspect of human nature, affecting how we perceive ourselves and our worth in the world. However, the roots of self-esteem are often misunderstood, with many believing that it can be achieved through external validation or material success. In reality, self-esteem is intrinsically linked to self-acceptance, a concept that is often overlooked in our quest for happiness and fulfillment. Self-acceptance involves coming to terms with who we are, including our strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections. It requires a deep understanding and appreciation of our own unique identity, without seeking approval or validation from others. In essence, self-acceptance is the foundation upon which self-esteem is built. When we accept ourselves for who we are, we are able to cultivate a sense of self-worth that is not dependent on external factors. This allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience, knowing that our value is inherent and not contingent on the opinions of others. In contrast, when we seek validation from outside sources, our self-esteem becomes fragile and easily shaken. Self-acceptance also involves embracing our vulnerabilities and imperfections, recognizing that they are an essential part of being human. By acknowledging and accepting our flaws, we can develop a sense of authenticity and integrity that is crucial for building healthy relationships and achieving personal growth. In a society that often values perfection and conformity, self-acceptance can be a radical act of self-love and empowerment. It requires us to challenge societal norms and expectations, choosing instead to embrace our true selves without apology or hesitation.- Self-acceptance is the key to unlocking our full potential and living a life of purpose and meaning. By learning to love and accept ourselves unconditionally, we can cultivate a deep sense of self-worth that transcends external circumstances and empowers us to live authentically and boldly.
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