Set boundaries with compassion from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
Setting boundaries with compassion means being firm and clear about the limits you are setting, while also showing understanding and empathy towards the teenager. It involves communicating your expectations and rules in a respectful and non-judgmental way, taking into account the teenager's feelings and perspective. When setting boundaries with compassion, it is important to listen to the teenager's point of view and acknowledge their feelings. By showing empathy and understanding, you can create a more open and trusting relationship with the teenager. This can help them feel respected and valued, even when they are being told no or given a limit. It is also impo...Similar Posts
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