Foster open and honest communication from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
The key to fostering open and honest communication with teens is to create an environment where they feel safe sharing their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or criticism. This means being a good listener and showing genuine interest in what they have to say. When teens feel like they are being heard and understood, they are more likely to open up and communicate openly. It is important to be honest and authentic in your own communication with teens. This means being truthful about your own thoughts and feelings, even if they are difficult to express. Teens can sense when someone is being insincere or withholding information, so it is crucial to be transparent and genuine in your interactions with them. Another important aspect of fostering open and honest communication with teens is to avoid jumping to conclusions or making assumptions about their thoughts and feelings. Instead, take the time to ask questions and seek clarification to ensure that you are understanding them correctly. This shows teens that you respect their perspective and are willing to listen to them without judgment. It is also important to be patient and give teens the time and space they need to express themselves. Avoid interrupting or rushing them to get to the point. Allow them to share at their own pace and in their own words. This shows that you value their thoughts and opinions and are willing to give them the space to communicate effectively. By creating an environment of trust, respect, and understanding, you can foster open and honest communication with teens. This will not only strengthen your relationship with them but also help them feel more comfortable expressing themselves and seeking support when needed. Remember that communication is a two-way street, and it is essential to listen as much as you speak in order to truly connect with teens.
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