Provide specific feedback to encourage positive behavior from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When you notice a behavior you like, it's important to give your child specific feedback. Instead of saying, "Great job!" try to be more descriptive. For example, you could say, "I noticed how you helped your sister pick up her toys without being asked. That was really thoughtful of you." By providing specific feedback, you are showing your child exactly what they did right and why it was important. This kind of feedback helps reinforce positive behavior because it lets your child know exactly what they did that was good. It also shows that you are paying attention and appreciate their efforts. This can be very motivating for children, as it helps them understand the impact of their actions. When giving feedback, try to be genuine and sincere. Your child will be able to tell if you are just saying something to make them feel good. Be specific and honest in your praise, and your child will be more likely to continue the positive behavior in the...
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