Offer empathy instead of solutions from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When children come to us with a problem, our natural instinct is to jump in and fix it. We want to offer solutions, advice, and quick fixes. We want to make everything better for them right away. However, sometimes what children really need is for us to simply listen and understand. They need us to acknowledge their feelings and show empathy. By offering empathy instead of solutions, we are validating their emotions and letting them know that it's okay to feel the way they do. We are creating a safe space for them to express themselves without fear of judgment or criticism. This approach helps to strengthen our relationship with our children and fosters trust and open communication. When we rush in with solutions, we may unintentionally dismiss their feelings or make them feel like their emotions are not val...
Similar Posts
Using humor effectively can enhance communication
Humor is a powerful tool in communication. When used effectively, it can break down barriers and create connections with others...
Use questions to guide discussions
When engaging in discussions, it is crucial to ask questions that lead the conversation in a specific direction. By using quest...
Adapt communication style to different people
To effectively communicate with different individuals, it is essential to adjust your communication style based on the person y...
The past shapes our present
Throughout our lives, the experiences we have gone through, the people we have met, and the choices we have made all play a sig...
Use communication as a tool for personal and professional growth
Communication is a powerful tool that can be used to enhance both personal and professional growth. By mastering the art of eff...
Plan quality time together
One thing that can help is to plan quality time together. I know, I know, easier said than done. But at least it’s a starting p...
Understanding body language is essential in decoding others' thoughts
To truly understand what someone is thinking, you must pay close attention to their body language. The way a person moves, gest...
Be patient and understanding with others
Patience and understanding are two key qualities that can help you build strong and lasting relationships with others. When you...
Valorize sua autoestima e autoconfiança
To value your self-esteem and self-confidence means to recognize your worth and abilities. It involves acknowledging your stren...
Fear can be a barrier or a motivator
Fear, a primal emotion that can either paralyze us or propel us forward. It can act as a barrier, holding us back from pursuing...