Avoid criticizing or belittling the child from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish by
Criticism and belittling can be damaging to a child's self-esteem and confidence. When we point out a child's faults or shortcomings in a negative way, it can make them feel small and inadequate. It can also create a sense of resentment and resistance in the child, leading to a breakdown in communication and cooperation. Instead of criticizing or belittling a child, it is important to focus on their positive qualities and strengths. By acknowledging their efforts and achievements, we can boost their self-esteem and motivate them to continue trying their best. Encouragement and praise can go a long way in building a child's confidence and fostering a pos...
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