Foster connection from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
To foster connection with your child means to prioritize your relationship above all else. It means putting in the time and effort to truly connect with your child on a deeper level, to understand their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. This concept involves showing empathy, compassion, and understanding towards your child, even when they are challenging you. It means being present and engaged when they are talking to you, listening without judgment, and validating their feelings. Fostering connection also involves being vulnerable and open...
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