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Children need our presence and attention from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
In our busyness and distractions, we often overlook the fundamental truth that children require our undivided attention and presence. This need is not a mere desire or preference, but a vital necessity for their healthy development and well-being. When we are physically present but mentally absent, when our attention is divided between devices, work, or other responsibilities, we send a message to our children that they are not truly important or valued. Children are highly attuned to the emotional and relational cues of their caregivers. They instinctively know when they are being listened to, seen, and truly heard. Without our full presence and attention, they may feel neglected, insecure, and disconnected. This sense of disconnect can lead to a host of behavioral issues, emotional struggles, and challenges in forming secure attachments. When we make a consciou...
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