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Building trust with our children is essential from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté

Building trust with our children is not just a nice thing to do; it is essential. Trust is the foundation of all healthy relationships, especially the one between parents and children. When children trust their parents, they feel safe, secure, and connected. This deep sense of trust allows parents to guide, teach, and influence their children in a meaningful way. Trust is built through consistent, loving, and responsive interactions. When parents are emotionally available and attuned to their children's needs, children learn to rely on them for support and guidance. This reliance is what forms the basis of trust. Children who trust their parents are more likely to seek their advice, share their thoughts and feelings, and turn to them in times of need. Without trust, parents may find it difficult to connect with their children on a deeper level. When trust is lacking, children may become resistant, defiant, or withdrawn. They may seek validation and approval from their peers or other authority figures instead of their parents. This shift in loyalty can have negative consequences on the parent-child relationship. B...
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    Hold on to Your Kids

    Gordon Neufeld

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