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We need to create a strong bond with our children from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté

The foundation of our relationship with our children is the bond we share with them. This bond is not just important, it is crucial. It is what keeps them close to us, connected to us, and willing to listen to us. Without a strong bond, we cannot effectively guide, teach, or influence our children. We might have all the rules, consequences, and rewards in place, but without a strong bond, they will not have the desired impact. Building and maintaining this bond requires time, effort, and intentionality. It is not something that happens automatically or effortlessly. It requires us to be present, attentive, and responsive to our children's needs and emotions. We need to be there for them, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. We need to be attuned to their feelings, thoughts, and experiences. We need to show them that we care about them, that we are interested in them, and that we love them unconditionally. One of the key ways to strengthen the bond with our children is through attachment. Attachment is the deep emotional connection that forms between a parent and a child. It is what makes a child feel sa...
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    Hold on to Your Kids

    Gordon Neufeld

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