Use positive reinforcement to motivate your child from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool in motivating your child to behave in a desired manner. By focusing on rewarding good behavior rather than punishing bad behavior, you can create a more positive and effective parenting dynamic. When your child receives praise, rewards, or other positive reinforcements for behaving well, they are more likely to continue that behavior in the future. One key aspect of using positive reinforcement is being consistent in your approach. Make sure to always acknowledge and reward good behavior, no matter how small. This consistency will help your child understand what is expected of them and encourage them to continue acting in a positive way. It's important to be specific when giving positive reinforcement. Instead of simply saying "good job," try to be more detailed and descriptive. For example, you could say, "I really appreciate how you shared your toys with your friend. That was very kind of you." This specificity helps your child understand exactly what be...
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