Create a united front with your spouse in parenting from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
One of the most important aspects of successful parenting is presenting a united front with your spouse. This means being on the same page when it comes to rules, consequences, and expectations for your children. When you and your spouse are not in agreement, it creates confusion and conflict for your kids. Children are quick to pick up on inconsistencies between parents, and they will use this to their advantage. When you and your spouse are not united in your parenting approach, your children will learn to play one parent against the other. They will quickly figure out who is the "softie" and who is the "strict one," and they will use this knowledge to manipulate situations to get what they want. This not only creates discord within the family, but it also undermines your authority as parents. To avoid this situation, it is crucial that you and your spouse present a united front at all times. This means having open and honest discussions about your parenting beliefs and goals, and coming to a mutual agreement on how to handle discipline and other par...
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