Acknowledge your child's feelings, but hold them accountable for their actions from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
When your child comes to you feeling upset, it's important to validate their emotions. Let them know that you understand how they are feeling and that it's okay to feel that way. This helps them feel heard and acknowledged, which can help diffuse the situation. However, it's crucial to also address their behavior and hold them accountable for their actions. Just because they are upset or frustrated does not give them a free pass to act out or behave inappropriately. As a parent, it's your job to teach them that they are responsible for their actions, regardless of how they are feeling. By acknowledging their feelings and then holding them accountable for their actions, you are teaching your child a valuable lesson in emotional regulation and personal responsibility. This approach helps them understand that it's okay to feel emotions, but it's not okay to let those emotions dictate their behavior. It's a delicate balance, but by showing empathy and understanding towards your child's feelings while also setting clear boundaries and consequences for their actions, you are helping them develop important skills that will serve them well in the future. This approach fosters a healthy emotional intelligence and helps them learn how to navigate their feelings in a constructive way.
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