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Games involve hidden agendas and manipulation from "summary" of Games People Play by Eric Berne, MD
In every game people play, there are hidden agendas at play and manipulation at work. These agendas may not be immediately obvious, but they are always present, influencing the actions and interactions of the players involved. One of the key aspects of games is the element of manipulation. Players will often use various tactics to control the outcome of the game in their favor. This manipulation can take many forms, from subtle hints and gestures to outright deceit and lies. By manipulating the situation, players seek to gain an advantage over their opponents and achieve their desired outcome. Hidden agendas are another important aspect of games. These agendas are the underlying motivations and goals that drive the actions of the players. While the stated rules of the game may appear straightforward, the true objectives of the players can be much more complex and multi-layered. In many games, the true goal is not simply to win or achieve a certain outcome, but to fulfill deeper psychological needs such as gaining approval, asserting dominance, or avoiding feelings of inferiority. These hidden agendas can shape the dynamics of the game and determine the strategies that players employ.- We can gain insight into the underlying motivations and behaviors of the players. This awareness can help us navigate the complexities of human interaction more effectively and avoid falling into destructive patterns of gameplay. Ultimately, recognizing the hidden agendas and manipulation at play in games can lead to more authentic and fulfilling relationships with others.
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