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Avoid controversial topics that may lead to disagreements from "summary" of Better Small Talk by Patrick King
When it comes to engaging in small talk, it's wise to tread carefully and avoid stepping into potential landmines. One of the most effective ways to do this is by steering clear of controversial topics that have the potential to spark disagreements. These topics can range from politics and religion to contentious social issues and personal beliefs. While these topics may be important to some people, they can also be highly polarizing and divisive, leading to heated arguments and strained relationships. Engaging in small talk is all about building rapport and finding common ground with others. By avoiding controversial topics, you can create a more relaxed and harmonious atmosphere that fosters positive interactions. Instead of delving into potentially inflammatory subjects, focus on topics that are more neutral and universally relatable. This can include things like hobbies, interests, travel, food, and pop culture. These topics are generally safe bets and are less likely to lead to disagree...
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