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Avoid Seeking Constant Approval from Your Child from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin
It's natural to want your child to like you. After all, who doesn't want their child's approval and admiration? But seeking constant approval from your child can backfire. When you go out of your way to make sure your child is always happy with you, you might sacrifice your own values or beliefs in the process. Children need parents who are willing to set boundaries and enforce rules, even when it's not the popular choice. Constantly seeking approval from your child can lead to inconsistency in your parenting. One day you might say yes to something you normally wouldn't just to make your child happy, and the next day you might say no. This can confuse your child and make it harder for them to understand the rules. It's important for parents to be confident in their decisions and not rely on their child's approval to validate them. When you're constantly seeking your child's approval, you're giving them too much power. Your child shouldn't be in charge of your emotions or self-worth. It's your job as a parent to lead by example and show your child how to be confident and self-assured. Teach your child that it's okay to disagree and that you can still love each other even when you don't see eye to eye. By setting this example, you're helping your child develop important social and emotional skills that will serve them well in the future. Remember, your child's approval should not be the driving force behind your parenting decisions. Focus on what's best for your child in the long run, even if it means they're not always happy with you in the moment.
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