Avoid using threats or punishment from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish by
When we resort to threats or punishment, we may get the behavior we want in the short term, but at what cost? Threats and punishment can have negative long-term effects on our relationship with our children. Instead of motivating them to behave better, threats and punishment can lead to resentment, fear, and a breakdown in communication. Children who are constantly threatened or punished may become anxious, withdrawn, or rebellious. They may start to see us as adversaries rather than allies. This can make it harder for us to connect with them and guide them in a positive way. It's important to remember that our goal is not just to control our children's behavior, but to help them develop into responsible, caring individuals. When we use threats or punishment, we are sending the messag...
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