Respect children's autonomy and individuality from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we respect children's autonomy and individuality, we acknowledge that they are separate beings with their own thoughts, feelings, and desires. We recognize that they have the right to make choices and decisions that are meaningful to them. This doesn't mean letting children do whatever they want without any boundaries or guidance. It means treating them with the same respect and consideration that we would give to any other person. Children are not extensions of ourselves, they are unique individuals with their own preferences, interests, and perspectives. By respecting their autonomy, we show them that we value who they are as individuals. We listen to their thoughts and feelings, even if they are different from our own. We give them space to express themselves and make choices that are consistent with their own values and beliefs. Respecting children's autonomy also means allowing them to have a ...
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