Keep consequences simple and fair from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
When it comes to disciplining children, it's important to keep consequences simple and fair. This means that consequences should be straightforward and easy for children to understand. They should also be consistent and proportional to the behavior that occurred. If consequences are too complicated or confusing, children may become frustrated or resentful. On the other hand, if consequences are unfair or arbitrary, children may feel like they are being treated unjustly. This can lead to feelings of anger or rebellion. By keeping consequences simple and fair, parents can effectively teach their children right from wrong without causing unnecessary stress or conflict. This approach also helps children learn to take responsibility for their actions and understand the consequences of their behavior. When consequences are straightforward and consistent, children know what to expect and are more likely to comply with rules and expectations. This can help create a more peaceful and harmonious family environment.- The goal of discipline is to teach children to make good choices and behave appropriately. By keeping consequences simple and fair, parents can help their children learn and grow in a positive and nurturing way.
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