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Women tend to use indirect language to soften their message from "summary" of You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen

In conversations, women often use indirect language to express their thoughts and feelings in a way that is less confrontational or aggressive. This is not to say that women are being deceitful or manipulative, but rather that they are using language as a tool to maintain harmony and avoid conflict. For example, instead of saying "I don't like that idea," a woman might say "I'm not sure that's the best approach." This subtle shift in language can make a big difference in how the message is received. By using indirect language, women can soften the impact of their words and make their message more palatable to the listener. This is especially important in situations where there is a power imbalance or when discussing sensit...
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